THE TRAGIC MORNING WHICH TRANSFORMED MY LIFE

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The tragic morning

At the age of 14, Something miserable happened and I transformed myself.
Early morning, As usual like daily I came back home through my morning walk. I went to the bathroom and my dad just was fighting with me to go first and take a bath as he was getting late for work. I had to just stay at home as vacations were going on. So, I told him that he may go to the bathroom and have bath. He never asked my mom to hold the bucket of hot water and took it by himself. Suddenly, all the hot water was on his body and he got burnt. He was on the floor and my mom came out from the kitchen. She had a huge cry and might be “GOD” too listened her.

The tragic morning

Somewhere or the other I was crushed at heart to see my dad on floor, I was totally depressed. I was totally in shock, out of my mind. I was so tender in age and could not decide to tackle the situation. As girls do have a deep attachment, I too share a brotherly bond with my dad. He is no doubtedly my superstar and King 👑. I had always been respectful to him. I had always cherished the way he is to me. I love him for he is an inspiration to me. YES, MY DAD IS MY INSPIRATION…. HE IS A HARD – WORKING MAN. He do faces life’s struggles by himself. He is “ONE MAN ARMY”. I truly appreciate his way of looking life in a positive manner. Even though, we belong to a middle class family. But, he does fulfill all my dreams of getting the best education. He supports me and guides me on the right path.

The tragic morning

I LOVE HIM THE WAY HE IS…. Even though at times he is irritated just because of our household expenses. I can totally understand why he sometimes get frustrated as he is the only one handling the house.

At this point of situation, when MY DAD WAS BURNT DUE TO THE HOT WATER, I DECIDED TO BE HIS RIGHT HAND.. ALL I WANTED WAS TO BE HIS BACKBONE AND STAND AS A STRENGTH TO HIM.

HOW I STARTED DOING SOMETHING –

FURTHERMORE, I STARTED TEACHING AT THE AGE OF 14,JUST BECAUSE I WANTED TO SUPPORT HIM AND BE MY MOM’S STRONG AND BRAVE DAUGHTER.
I was only into my 8th class when I being a kid started teaching kids. It only started when I out of a lot held in stress use to help my neighborhood children. They usually had ample of doubts and I truly was a kind of helpful especially in terms of education. So, here it started I decided to make my “EDUCATION AS A WEAPON”. I started teaching and my LIFE’S FIRST INCOME WAS RS. 250. It was too much less but it was just the start. But, it helped at least myself to do my own expenses by myself. I valued money a lot at those days. I truly understood the importance of money. I grew mature in my thoughts and aspirations. I was told by my mom to think about “life seriously”. I was a kiddish kind of girl, even though each girl at 14 is kiddish and enjoying life with teenage. But, my case was totally different. I had to be at my house and teach kids. Whereas, my friend’s usually use to play outside in the park just in front of my house. I never bothered about that. “OFCOURSE MY DAD HAD BEEN AND IS MY PRIORITY”. I never mind being different than them. But, I was happy that at least I was not similar to them. At this course of my lifetime, I had been in depression for 4 days when my dad had this Accident. I was a kind of foodie girl, but those 4 days, I neither saw food nor ate anything. As, dad was admitted to “SARVODEY HOSPITAL” held in ‘kavi Nagar, ghaziabad’. It was truly a drastic period of my life. My mom being a strong woman, handled everything, she use to guide me everything she could. I use to do the household chores which I never had done before.I learned everything during this time period. It was such a horrible experience for me. I use to go to sleep at 10,but usually I use to sleep exactly at 1,2. This was just because I wasn’t able to hold my tears coming out of my eyes. It was done till my pillow didn’t became wet. It was the “pathetic fear of losing him”. This fear of losing him, made me convert and transform into a matured girl….”

THINGS STARTED CHANGING –

Today, MR. AMAR KABIR SINGH, none other than my lovable dad is HEALTHY AND HAPPY PERSON. It all happened coz after the reports, we got to know that” DAD WAS HAVING DIABETES AND IT WAS A HEART ATTACK “. HIS ONLY LOVE AFTER MY MOM AND WE 3 SIBLINGS IS” SWEETS”. FURTHERMORE, My mom after knowing this has now become a bit strict. Of course, she being a fantastic wife is caresome for him and us too. “THIS GAVE ME A LESSON IN MY LIFE AND YES, TODAY, BEING A GIRL I AM INDEPENDENT AND FAR BETTER THAN MY FRIENDS AND SOCIETY. FOR SURE, I EARN QUITE WELL TO BE A STRENGTH AND BACKBONE OF MY PARENTS. MY DAD TOO LOVES ME A LOT, 😂STILL HIS 1ST PRIORITY IS MY MOM. I STILL DON’T MIND THIS. EVEN THIS THING BRINGS HAPPINESS TO ME. I am thankful to GOD, THANKYOU GOD, THE ALMIGHTY FOR, MY DAD IS ALIVE TODAY.

 

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